Monday, May 21, 2018

A very Valid Reason...

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                If it’s one thing, I have come to know over all of my time living alone… it’s that… I’m not the most dependable person in the world.
                In fact… I realize now… why former friends may have decided to not care, abandon me in my time of need, walk away, and focus on other things…
                But what of loyalty? Does it not have a say in this? I feel like, even if a friend isn’t always there for you, it’s not because they surely don’t want to be.
                And if you ask them, and they always say yes…. ?  Even if they don’t show up… does that not portray a measure of loyalty to you?

                I have tried… striven… always to be a loyal friend.

                But in the end they always choose to toss aside.

                In some ways, I would not blame them…
                                I’m not dependable. I’m only human.
                I get tired…
                I get weak…
                I get sick…

                                Surely… a Valid reason…

                Still…
                                To thrust someone aside for being undependable…
                                                Is like…
                                                                Throwing away a bag of potato chips… because one chip tasted funny.
Or
                Tossing away a whole bag of apples because one of them was bruised.

I would even go so far as to say,…
                It be like:                              Opening a discarded box you found on the side of the road that’s clearly heavy with goods… seeing one single broken bowel… and discarding the entire box… without so much as peeking at the rest inside…


                I feel as though… people only see the bad in me. Because that is their first impression. And clearly, I cannot change this.
                I miss one meeting, and I’m a self-centered boob who doesn’t give a damn. Without so much as seeing my side of the story!
               
                I’m also beginning to feel as though…
Being Alone + Being Poor = Suffering


                      No matter how hard I try…
                                                No matter how many times I push myself…
                It’s NEVER… Ever… Going to be enough…






















                



          But what most people DON’T realize… Is that there is a certain beauty to this darkness… when the dark does come upon us, and the moon rises amidst the debt of night.

                I have my flaws,. . .  as does all mankind…
                                But most will never know of the beauty of the night,… if they always choose to end their day before the sun sets.


~ CLynn ~





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